People who are emotionally healthy are in control of their emotions and their behaviour are more able to handle life’s challenges, build strong relationships, and recover from setbacks. But just as it requires effort to build or maintain physical health, so it is with mental and emotional health.
Promote your wellbeing
Here are ten things you can do to promote your wellbeing:
Being isolated for long periods can cause strong feelings and difficult experiences such as anxiety, depression and loneliness. For some people, each day can be overwhelming. You are not alone. Reach out for help if you need it.
Be kind to yourself
Try to do something nice for yourself every day and celebrate small wins – even if it’s as simple as washing your hair, cooking a meal or catching up with a friend. You are doing the best you can in these difficult times.
Know who you need to stay in contact with for help with getting things done or just a general chat. Explore ways of connecting that work for you, whether that’s by post, over the phone, social media, or video chat. If you’re not tech savvy, regular phone calls, messages or even writing letters are lovely ways to show someone that you’re thinking of them.
Great for mind and body. Find ways to keep physically active that are suitable to your ability and circumstances e.g. gardening. Even at home, there will be lots of ways to exercise and keep your body moving.
Keep a routine
Eating, sleeping, moving (either inside or outside) and making sure we keep hydrated are important to our mental health but they can seem overwhelming at a time like this. Develop a daily routine that works for you. This could include regular waking up and bedtimes, getting some fresh air and planned mealtimes.
Find ways to relax
Many of us worry about how things in the future will pan out. While coronavirus restrictions are in place, it may be helpful to try and take one day at a time if you can. Try a relaxation or meditation exercise that works for you and practice it once a day for at least 10 minutes.
Try to look for the positives in situations e.g. having some extra me time or having the opportunity to catch up with something you have been meaning to do.
When you are anxious, lonely or low you may do things that you usually enjoy less often, or not at all. If you can’t do the things you normally enjoy because you are staying at home, try to think about how you could adapt them, or try something new.
Make yourself heard
Talk to friends, family or community and faith groups about how you are feeling. Writing things down can help to organise your thoughts.
The news is all about coronavirus and this may create stress and worries. If this is an issue for you, then try and listen or read one news bulletin a day, then switch off and do other things.
Where you can find support
If you're finding things hard emotionally right now, you're not alone. For reliable information and tips to help you cope during this time, visit every-mind-matters or if you want to speak to someone local who can signpost to support for a range of needs (including mental health needs) call Torbay Community Helpline on 01803 446022
If you are at all worried about your mental health talk to your GP. The Mental Health Matters Devon Helpline provides free 24/7, 365 days mental health help on 0800 4700317.
TALKWORKS is a free NHS talking therapy service for people over 18 for people who are struggling to cope, feeling low, anxious or overwhelmed by their thoughts and feelings. Access Talkworks by calling 0300 555 3344 or via an online self-referral form.
The Silver Line provides free 24/7 information, friendship and advice to older people. Call 0800 470 8090 or visit: www.thesilverline.org.uk, for online support and lots of self-care resources and tools.
Visit www.healthwatchtorbay.org.uk to find out more about local services for issues such as anxiety, depression, grief and bereavement, financial difficulties, drug and alcohol use and relationship problems.
More information and resources are available on the Torbay Your Health website.
In an emergency
Call 999 or go to A&E now if someone's life is at risk – for example, they have seriously injured themselves or taken an overdose OR you do not feel you can keep yourself or someone else safe.